Create A Truly Happy And Fulfilled Life in 12 Steps
“The trouble is, you think you have time” ~ Buddah
How frequently have you felt like you needed a “fresh start” or to begin a “new chapter” in your life?
We’ve all been there… a major profession change, a life-changing encounter, or most generally the start of the new year.
Everything is extraordinary toward the start. We’re energized and propelled however at that point, after only half a month, that fervor begins to get decrease. Also, remaining on track gets increasingly troublesome.
Would you be able to relate? This is normal, so don’t stress in the event that you can.
Today we need to put a stop to this cycle for the last time!
Great or great?
12 Steps To Creating A Truly Happy And Fulfilled Life
1. Write Down Your Goals
Take the time to do this one very important and crucial exercise.
What do you want to accomplish in the next 30 days? Don’t just think about it or talk about it, write it down!
Studies have shown that the simple act of taking the time to write out your goals will dramatically increase the likelihood of achieving those goals!
So write, write, write!
2. Let Go Of “What Was”
It’s time to let go of the past (just leave it behind).
Let’s face it, you can’t change the past. In fact, the past doesn’t even exist anymore. The only place it exists is in your mind.
Let it go. Learn the lessons, look for the silver-linings, and be grateful for what “is” today and what will be tomorrow… It’s impossible to “receive” anything new and great when you’re holding on to the negative stuff from the past.
So, like the Disney song …
Are you holding on to any resentment, anger or regret toward someone? If so, it’s time to forgive, and again you’ve got to let it go.
The only person you hurt when you don’t forgive, is yourself.
Don’t let anyone rent space in your head.
Who knows why people do what they do or say what they say. Stop trying to analyze it and make it mean something it doesn’t. That’s just wasted energy.
Be the bigger person. Just forgive and move on.
Also sometimes, we need to forgive ourselves for something we’ve done or said. No one’s perfect. We all make mistakes and have done and said things we are not proud of – let it go (as per #2 above) and forgive yourself.
Choose to be the best person you can be, starting today.
4. Live “Outside” The Box
Don’t follow the “crowd.”
Most people are unhappy with their lives. Be courageous and follow the path to your dream life (not your parents’, friends, or even society’s dream life).
This is YOUR LIFE. YOU are the one at the steering wheel of your life. Unless you allow them to be – DONT.
5. Enjoy The Journey
Why? Because the “journey” is your life!
Sometimes we focus so much on the end result or the “goal” we wish to achieve, that we are not even enjoying the journey it takes to get there.
If you’re really hating your journey, then maybe it’s time to make some changes in your life and/or your goals (see #1).
6. Fail Forward
Most people are afraid to try something new because they are afraid to fail. Remember, the most successful people on this planet failed way more than the “average” person. In fact, if you ask any super successful person, they’ll tell you how they failed A LOT!
Why did they become successful? Because, they never gave up.
Don’t ever let the fear of “failure” get in the way of living your dreams. If you fail, get back on that horse, brush yourself off and learn the lessons you need to learn.
Then adjust your path and move forward… always move forward.
7. Eat Healthy & Be Active
You only have this one body. Remember, you can’t trade it in for a new one. So treat it well…
What you do to your body today has a huge impact on how long you live and the quality of life you will lead in the future.
Don’t wait until it’s too late. Start now.
8. Be The Most Positive Person You Know
The words you use when you communicate with others reflects your thoughts on the inside.
Like Buddha said “What you think you become.”
So don’t get caught up in negative conversations or gossip with others.
In fact, stay away from negative people altogether.
As they do not elevate you or your life but are “energy drainers.”. Remember, negativity is contagious and toxic . It will be difficult to manifest great things in your life being exposed to that negative energy.
Like Oprah said, “Be responsible for the energy you bring into a room.”
Related Article: Self Esteem: Strategies To Turn Negative Thought Into Positive Solutions
9. Create Your Own “Circle Of Light”
Make it a priority that you will only hang out with great, positive and loving people. Sometimes it’s hard to find those people in your immediate social surroundings, if that’s the case, step “outside the box” and go find them.
You can do that by joining a fun and positive “meetup” group that focuses on “inspiration” or on a topic that revolves around living your life positively.
It’s vital that you surround yourself with positive, highly evolved, loving people who elevate you.
10. Love More
Make it a priority to always come from a place of love.
Whether you are standing in the grocery line, stuck in traffic, or having a conversation with a co-worker, family member or a friend, coming from this love “state” not only affects how you feel, it affects how others feel around you too.
How do you do that? Simply ask yourself “If I were coming from a place of love right now, how would I act?” and then do that.
Sometimes it can simply be acknowledging another person with a big genuine smile, giving a compliment or just refraining from getting into a confrontation when you’re placed in a negative situation.
11. Go Within & Get Really Connected To “Source” (or the God of your understanding)
Simply be still, be present and go within.
Meditation is a phenomenal way to do that. There’s no better way to elevate your vibration, feel true inner peace and get the answers, solutions and guidance you are looking for.
AND last but not least…
12. Focus On What’s Important
Sometimes we get so consumed on the little things or we are so focused on achieving a specific goal, that we neglect the bigger and more important things in our life. Often, we don’t realize that — until it’s too late.
So what’s important?
RELATIONSHIPS – that is the most important “thing” in our lives. Don’t neglect, ignore, or dismiss the people who mean the most to you.
They won’t always be there. Keep Connected!
Remember, life is short. Don’t find out the hard way to learn this lesson, like many people do.
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